Monday, May 16, 2005

A Christian’s Guide on How To Live and Fulfill God’s Plan For Your Life!

It is natural to feel confused and wonder, “What is God’s plan for my life? What is my purpose in life?”

You look for answers in every corner of the earth only to be disappointed.

Year after year pass and you are still in the same place. Sure, you get the promotion, pay increase, and take a few vacations but you still feel empty inside. It is as though you are not fulfilling your true potential.

You May Be In A Domestic Violence Relationship and Suffering From Abuse!

All my life I've heard or witnessed domestic violence acts of men abusing women and women abusing men. Whether it was walking down the street seeing a man aggressively grab his lady, hearing a scream come from a building I was passing or hearing the crys behind closed doors.

The sad part is there are so many women (and men) accepting this as “normal” behavior. It's difficult to admit to oneself that you are in a Domestic Violence relationshp and are being abused. You think, “How could this happen to me?”

Below are simple indications that you are being abused physically, emotionally or sexually which is an excerpt from New York City, Human Resource Administration Pamphlet.

Battered Woman's & Man's Guide of Signs To Look For In A Battering Personality!

Many women are interested in ways that they can predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be physically abusive. Usually battering occurs between a man and a woman, but lesbians can be battered too.

Below is a list of behaviors that are seen in people who beat their girlfriends or wives. The last four signs listed are battering, but many women don't realize this is the beginning of physical abuse.

If a person has several of the other behaviors (say three or more) there is a strong potential for physical violence -- the more signs a person has, the more likely the person is a batterer. In some cases a batterer may have only a couple of behaviors that the woman can recognize, but they are very exaggerated: (e.g. will try to explain his/her behavior as signs of his/her love and concern, and a woman may be flattered at first; but as time goes on, the behaviors become more severe and serve to dominate and control the woman).

Discover How You Sabotage The First Date and Decrease Your Chances Of Meeting A Decent Mate!

If you're single and dating I feel for you. It's definitely not easy attempting to identify the right person for you.

There is something you, and millions of people, do on the first date that pretty much ruins your chances of identifying a good mate.

YOU'RE UNABLE TO LET GO OF THE PAST!

Your date is not the person who hurt you, used you or lied to you! They are new and don't know anything about you. Why would you allow negative experiences to ruin a golden opportunity?