Relationship Help: 10 Instant Tips For Better Sex

Get In The (Erogenous) Zone

Guys, while you're heading for the obvious - lips, breasts, clitoris - don't overlook these other erogenous zones.

DRACULA WAS A SMART DUDE - Come up behind her, push her hair away from the back of her neck, and deliver soft, warm kisses. Watch for goose bumps and listen for moaning - good indicators that you're on the right track!

TONGUE ROLEX - Lightly graze the inside of her wrists with your tongue. Most guys overlook this 'hot spot', and most women adore the attention. Follow up with soft kisses in the same area and, if you like, work your way up her arm.

BEND AN ELBOW - The soft skin on the delicate curve on the inside of a woman's elbow is packed with nerve endings. Kiss her there and watch her whole body shiver as the sensations go through her.

HAIR RAISING - Scalp massage is stimulating to the brain AND other parts of the body. Running your fingers through your partner's hair creates a series of wonderful sensations. And, more importantly this brain tickle causes her body to release endorphins, which dramatically affect her sense of calm and well being for the better.

THE BEE'S KNEES - If you're stroking your partner's legs, pay particular attention to the area behind her knees. Massage it gently to start because some women are overly sensitive and get ticklish, rather than turned-on. If her response lets you know that she's enjoying what you're doing, replace your fingers with your lips and tongue.

EAR-GASM - Nibble and gently suck on her earlobe, then lick the center of her ear. Doing this alone with a certain facility (and with a certain woman) can bring her to orgasm. This phenomenon is called the auricologenital reflex and occurs as a result of a nerve inside the ear canal being stimulated. (Take it easy - that's our last science lesson!).

FANCY FOOTWORK - Women have pedicures for more than just the color. A foot message is sensual and, if the right person is doing it, extremely sexual. Start by applying light pressure on your partner's sole and heel Next, you can gently stroke her toes and ankle.

Tip within a Tip: - The hollow area on the sides of her ankle, between the anklebone and the Achilles tendon, is an acupressure point believed to help restore sexual energy. Don't miss it.

FROM ONE SET OF LIPS TO THE OTHER - Get to know the frenulum -- that little bit of center tissue that connects the upper lip and the gums. This is a pressure point that sends messages straight to a woman's private parts. Gently suck on her upper lip and allow your lower lip to caress her frenulum. If she likes it, you'll see (and feel) a reaction immediately.

ABOVE AND BEYOND THE CALL OF BOOY - Apply a gentle touch--just barely grazing the skin--to the sacrum, the area of her lower back just above the tailbone. As her skin heats up under your hand, apply increasing pressure to either side of her spine…but not directly on it. Then move lower to massage the tops of her buttocks. Try it. She'll like it.

EXPANDING THE ZONE - When properly stimulated, a woman's entire body becomes an erogenous zone, sending sexy electrical impulses to the brain from such likely places as the sides of the legs, the chest, even the elbows. Simply glide your hands down her whole body from her armpits to her legs, then back up again. Do it right, and she'll squirm with pleasure. Hot stuff.

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