Thursday, May 26, 2005

Embarrassingly Simple Secrets Reveals Why Women Cheat, Have Extramarital Affairs and How Men Can Instantly Prevent Women From Cheating!

I know why women cheat and have extramarital affairs and you may not believe me. You want to know why?

It is your skepticism that prevents you from stopping your woman from cheating. You just cannot believe, and do not know, how simple it is to prevent your woman from cheating.

So, what happens? Your lady gets pissed off with you time and time again. Finally, she is fed up and decides to cheat on you.

Wednesday, May 18, 2005

The Way to a Woman’s Heart Might be Through Her Cat!

A national survey released today confirms: American women like men who like cats.

(PRWEB) -- 92% of women respondents agreed with the statement, “that a man who is good to a woman's cat in a sincere manner will very probably be good to her.”

89% percent of respondents agreed with the statement, “A women would appreciate a man who gave a gift to her cat.” And 85% of women reported “A women would be particularly impressed with a man who presented her cat with a gift.”

Can Relationship Advice and Relationship Help Actually Assist You To Improve Your Life?

There's a hidden truth that very few people are willing to tell you…at least those of us who have figured out our purpose in life!

While it won't harm you it can slow your progress, and many times, prevent you from achieving your life and personal goals.

Want to know what it is?

Tuesday, May 17, 2005

How Ambition Can Cause Dating and Relationship Problems!

The pitfalls of being too ambitious and being a workaholic. These traits can wreck havoc of your love life and dating.

(PRWEB) -- Gemini Publishing Co., a leading provider of books, cassettes, videos, DVDs, and pheromone products for single men on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce women, announced today another article on succeeding with women.

Are you a workaholic and obsessed with your career and getting ahead in life at all costs? Do you live, eat, and breathe to just spend all of your time working?

10 Love Making Tips and Insights Women Want Men To Know That Will Drive Them Crazy With Passion Are Revealed!

Women want better love making and more intimacy from men. While it is not a difficult task, very few men take the time to understand what women desire. It is easy improve the love making and intimacy in any relationship when you know what to do.

For hundreds of years, women have told men exactly what they needed to know to improve their lovemaking and increase the intimacy.

A study by the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction concluded approximately 25 percent of women were sexually frustrated.

Monday, May 16, 2005

A Christian’s Guide on How To Live and Fulfill God’s Plan For Your Life!

It is natural to feel confused and wonder, “What is God’s plan for my life? What is my purpose in life?”

You look for answers in every corner of the earth only to be disappointed.

Year after year pass and you are still in the same place. Sure, you get the promotion, pay increase, and take a few vacations but you still feel empty inside. It is as though you are not fulfilling your true potential.

You May Be In A Domestic Violence Relationship and Suffering From Abuse!

All my life I've heard or witnessed domestic violence acts of men abusing women and women abusing men. Whether it was walking down the street seeing a man aggressively grab his lady, hearing a scream come from a building I was passing or hearing the crys behind closed doors.

The sad part is there are so many women (and men) accepting this as “normal” behavior. It's difficult to admit to oneself that you are in a Domestic Violence relationshp and are being abused. You think, “How could this happen to me?”

Below are simple indications that you are being abused physically, emotionally or sexually which is an excerpt from New York City, Human Resource Administration Pamphlet.

Battered Woman's & Man's Guide of Signs To Look For In A Battering Personality!

Many women are interested in ways that they can predict whether they are about to become involved with someone who will be physically abusive. Usually battering occurs between a man and a woman, but lesbians can be battered too.

Below is a list of behaviors that are seen in people who beat their girlfriends or wives. The last four signs listed are battering, but many women don't realize this is the beginning of physical abuse.

If a person has several of the other behaviors (say three or more) there is a strong potential for physical violence -- the more signs a person has, the more likely the person is a batterer. In some cases a batterer may have only a couple of behaviors that the woman can recognize, but they are very exaggerated: (e.g. will try to explain his/her behavior as signs of his/her love and concern, and a woman may be flattered at first; but as time goes on, the behaviors become more severe and serve to dominate and control the woman).

Discover How You Sabotage The First Date and Decrease Your Chances Of Meeting A Decent Mate!

If you're single and dating I feel for you. It's definitely not easy attempting to identify the right person for you.

There is something you, and millions of people, do on the first date that pretty much ruins your chances of identifying a good mate.

YOU'RE UNABLE TO LET GO OF THE PAST!

Your date is not the person who hurt you, used you or lied to you! They are new and don't know anything about you. Why would you allow negative experiences to ruin a golden opportunity?

Sunday, May 15, 2005

Finally Understand Men And Their Weird Ways!

If it's one thing I know for sure is men confused the heck out of women and vice versa.

Many of the problems we have are usually a result of miscommunication and not understanding the other person.

When you throw into the mix people are not taking their time to get to know each other you can see how issues and problems can escalate really quick.

What's The Big Deal With Love?

Have you ever watched a friend in love do things they vowed never to do? It's like they are in another world!

When the relationship is over the common statements are, "I can't believe I did that!" or "What was I thinking to allow that to happen!"

I have found love to be blind because it is neutral! It doesn't see your faults. It doesn't judge you. It only knows what's in your heart.

4 Ways A Woman Can Experience Great Sex and Lovemaking That Is Out Of This World!

When was the last time you had that earth-shattering, make you want to smack your momma and pull your hair out lovemaking?

If you are still thinking it's been too long. And if you can recall a time or two that's great. However, if you're wondering what's the big deal...you have been neglected and have no idea what you are missing!

Are you ready to discover the 4 ways you can experience great sex and awesome lovemaking that is out of this world? Let's get to them.

Friday, May 13, 2005

The #1 Reason Why You Are Unhappy In Your Relationship Is Revealed!

Have you ever wondered, "What is wrong with me? I do everything I'm supposed to do in my relationships yet they still fail?" I truly understand how you feel!

In the next two minutes, you will discover how you complicate your relationships.

First, who said you had to be in a relationship to feel loved, cherished and to have a good time?

5 Simple Ways To Have A Loving, Peaceful and Happy Marriage!

Building a happy marriage is not as easy as people think. The notion that you meet the mate of your dreams, fall in love, get swept off your feet and live happily ever after is very rare.

A marriage must be worked on daily; and you must put forth some effort or it will eventually fall apart and fail.

While there are thousands of tips, the five simple strategies below will assist you to enhance your relationship and possibly prevent it from failing.

Thursday, May 12, 2005

Are You Addicted To Love?

A few weeks ago I stumbled upon a book that provided some insights on why people get addicted to love. In my opinion, it is an excellent book that could help millions of people.

There is one catch though...it does have theological undertones that may offend people who do not believe in God. It's very subtle yet noticable. If that will not bother you, the book will help you to understand the various addictions people, and you, may suffer from such as:

- People addictions
- Romance addictions
- Relationship addictions
- Sex addictions

You will also learn:

- What keeps people addicted
- Origins of addiction
- How to live with addiction
- Recovering from addiction
- What is healthy love

It is rare for me to recommend a printed book but this is one of those
"must have" books if you sincerely desire to be happy in your life and
relationships. You will learn a lot if you just read it and pay attention.

One more thing, if cannot be an open-minded individual do not read it. You will feel like a victim since it focuses on the individual who is going through these various situations. It doesn't necessarily blame you but realize almost everything begins and ends with the individual.

Just click on the book or the links above, view the information on the book and decide for yourself if it is something you would read.

Saturday, May 07, 2005

New Phenomenon – Homeschooling With the Internet

More and more working parents, disgusted with public schools, are homeschooling their children with accredited Internet schools.

(PRWEB) -- Joel Turtel, author of "Public Schools, Public Menace: How Public Schools Lie To Parents and Betray Our Children," says busy working parents can give their kids a quality, low-cost education at home using the Internet. “K-12th grade Internet schools can take most of the homeschooling burden off parent's backs.”

Millions of desperate parents today are appalled at the inferior education public schools give their kids, but think they have no where else to go.

Many parents believe that the only alternative to public schools is either a Catholic or Protestant-affiliated school or expensive non-religious private school. The problem is that even Catholic schools now charge an average tuition between $3000 to $4000 a year. Non-religious private schools can charge between $7000 to over $14,000 a year. Millions of low and middle-income parents simply cannot afford this tuition, so they think they are stuck with public schools.

Turtel says there’s another way. Now parents can use the Internet to give their kids an excellent education through Internet schools that cater to K-12th grade students.

The new Internet schools have very low tuition costs, from as low as $350 a year to $2000 or more a year. Many schools charge less than $900 a year.

For example, the Clonlara School currently charges about $750 for the 2005-06 school year for a new student in kindergarten through 8th grade studies. Children get a thorough education in Reading, Math, History, and many other subjects in the curriculum, and the school assigns a personal teacher to each child.

There are dozens of excellent Internet schools parents can choose from. Some schools such as Keystone National High School only offer high-school programs while others offer a complete, kindergarten through 12th grade education.

Many accredited Internet schools give a course of study similar to traditional private schools. They take children through a progressive curriculum in math, science, reading and writing, history, and many other subjects.

This structured, comprehensive program, in effect, gives children a personal teacher and private school in their own living room. As a result, these schools can relieve parents of most of the home-schooling burden, while giving children a high-quality education.

This setup is especially helpful for single-working moms, or families where both mother and father work. Since Internet-school teachers supervise the child's education, it's less likely that parents have to take time from work or quit their job to homeschool their kids.

Turtel's book has a whole Resource section devoted to Internet Schools and many other education options. The author lists dozens of Internet schools with their website addresses. Parents can quickly research these schools, find out if the yearly tuition fits their budget and the curriculum and teaching methods look suitable for their child.

As Turtel says in his book to parents, “You don’t have to settle for a third-rate [public school] education for your children. You do have alternatives, many excellent, low-cost alternatives that can give your children a first-rate education and a rewarding future.”

Turtel is also the author of a previous book, "The Welfare State: No Mercy For the Middle Class."

For more information visit Turtel's website, www.mykidsdeservebetter.com.

Friday, May 06, 2005

Relationship Help: 10 Instant Tips For Better Sex

Get In The (Erogenous) Zone

Guys, while you're heading for the obvious - lips, breasts, clitoris - don't overlook these other erogenous zones.

DRACULA WAS A SMART DUDE - Come up behind her, push her hair away from the back of her neck, and deliver soft, warm kisses. Watch for goose bumps and listen for moaning - good indicators that you're on the right track!

TONGUE ROLEX - Lightly graze the inside of her wrists with your tongue. Most guys overlook this 'hot spot', and most women adore the attention. Follow up with soft kisses in the same area and, if you like, work your way up her arm.

BEND AN ELBOW - The soft skin on the delicate curve on the inside of a woman's elbow is packed with nerve endings. Kiss her there and watch her whole body shiver as the sensations go through her.

HAIR RAISING - Scalp massage is stimulating to the brain AND other parts of the body. Running your fingers through your partner's hair creates a series of wonderful sensations. And, more importantly this brain tickle causes her body to release endorphins, which dramatically affect her sense of calm and well being for the better.

THE BEE'S KNEES - If you're stroking your partner's legs, pay particular attention to the area behind her knees. Massage it gently to start because some women are overly sensitive and get ticklish, rather than turned-on. If her response lets you know that she's enjoying what you're doing, replace your fingers with your lips and tongue.

EAR-GASM - Nibble and gently suck on her earlobe, then lick the center of her ear. Doing this alone with a certain facility (and with a certain woman) can bring her to orgasm. This phenomenon is called the auricologenital reflex and occurs as a result of a nerve inside the ear canal being stimulated. (Take it easy - that's our last science lesson!).

FANCY FOOTWORK - Women have pedicures for more than just the color. A foot message is sensual and, if the right person is doing it, extremely sexual. Start by applying light pressure on your partner's sole and heel Next, you can gently stroke her toes and ankle.

Tip within a Tip: - The hollow area on the sides of her ankle, between the anklebone and the Achilles tendon, is an acupressure point believed to help restore sexual energy. Don't miss it.

FROM ONE SET OF LIPS TO THE OTHER - Get to know the frenulum -- that little bit of center tissue that connects the upper lip and the gums. This is a pressure point that sends messages straight to a woman's private parts. Gently suck on her upper lip and allow your lower lip to caress her frenulum. If she likes it, you'll see (and feel) a reaction immediately.

ABOVE AND BEYOND THE CALL OF BOOY - Apply a gentle touch--just barely grazing the skin--to the sacrum, the area of her lower back just above the tailbone. As her skin heats up under your hand, apply increasing pressure to either side of her spine…but not directly on it. Then move lower to massage the tops of her buttocks. Try it. She'll like it.

EXPANDING THE ZONE - When properly stimulated, a woman's entire body becomes an erogenous zone, sending sexy electrical impulses to the brain from such likely places as the sides of the legs, the chest, even the elbows. Simply glide your hands down her whole body from her armpits to her legs, then back up again. Do it right, and she'll squirm with pleasure. Hot stuff.

About the Author

Michael Ferrell is the owner and operator of PerfectLoveLetters.com - Discover how you can quickly and easily create a romantic love letter in only 3 minutes guaranteed to swept your lover off their feet- without writing!

Tuesday, May 03, 2005

Wow! -- How to Make that Great First Impression


Do you want “Wow!” to be his reaction when he sees you for the first time? Yes, of course you do! Trust me, it's easier than you think.

Here’s the top 10 tips to generate that "Wow" reaction we all love to hear. By focusing on these 10 tips, you can make it happen!

1. Face - Your most expressive asset. The sparkle in your eyes and radiance of your smile will instantly send an introduction of who you are.

2. Hair – Frames your face. The color and style needs to flatter your face and balance your body.

3. Make-up – Colors that make you look your best. Choose eye shadows that accent the color of your eyes; blush and lipstick colors that coordinate and give you an attractive glow.

4. Clothing – Appropriate for the occasion, in a color and style that flatters you. Also, fit is important.

5. Jewelry and accessories – Opportunity to accent your best feature. Gives your outfit a finished look.

6. Shoes and purse – Functional and critical to complete your look. Shoes impact your posture and walk. Practice walking in new heels if they’re higher than you normally wear.

7. Posture –Signals your confidence. Think of your body being held up by a string attached to the top of your head and your feet just brushing the floor.

8. Walk –Your stride and pace reflect your demeanor. For a social first impression, you want your normal stride at a relaxed pace. Another reason to test out new shoes.

9. Voice – A pleasant tone of voice and clearly spoken words add credibility and warmth when you speak.

10. Handshake – When you greet him, extend your hand keeping your eyes on his face. Be sure your nails are well manicured.

Identify your strengths; example - ballerinas have great posture. Then determine which tips target skills you need to improve. Spend time developing these areas until they become second nature. The return on your investment will be a lifetime of rewards. Maybe selecting flattering colors for make-up and clothing is not your strength. Once you learn, and train your eye to identify these colors, you’ll always look your best.

Manage your wardrobe. Do you have accessories and shoes for new clothing purchases, as well as existing outfits? Are you keeping your clothes clean and mended, and shoes polished?

Your first impression can only be made once. By working on the details, you’ll have the composure to become a “Wow”.

If you were going to act in a play, you’d expect to rehearse before opening night. You have the same opportunity to rehearse for a first impression. Put on different outfits, including shoes and make-up; then stand, sit and walk around the room. Check your posture and your tone of voice. Practice until you become confident and comfortable.

If you’ve a pre-planned meeting, your rehearsal can become very specific. Put on the exact outfit you’ll wear, walk around your room, and carry on an imaginary conversation with the person you’ll be meeting. If possible, you may even decide to go to the meeting’s location to become familiar with that environment.

Now when opportunities occur, your “Wow” impression will be second nature.

About the Author

Kimberley Roberts has conducted hundreds of seminars and helped thousands of women and men find more self-assurance and confidence, creating greater success in their lives. Her simple but powerful ABCs of Success can help a person get more of what they want. Kimberley also writes articles for international business women and men on etiquette and manners for countries throughout the world.

Monday, May 02, 2005

Life and Relationship Help

Have you ever heard of "Simple Wisdom?" This is a term I use when something really simple holds a wealth of knowledge.

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Sunday, May 01, 2005

True Happiness - Relationship and Marriage

Most people look outside of themselves as the cause of their unhappiness or frustration. After all, wouldn’t life be practically perfect if the significant people in our lives would simply do things the way we want them to or do what we think is best for them? Actually, this is the kind of thinking that perpetuates the misery!

I agree that most of today’s unhappiness centers on important people in our lives not cooperating with us. Can anyone relate to that? Have you ever had a child who makes a decision that puts them in serious danger? Have you ever had a significant other decide to relocate or make an employment decision with which you were not in agreement? Did one of your parents ever say something critical to you that rocked your confidence? Ever had a supervisor who micromanaged your work and never gave credit for your good work performance? I think you get the idea. Any one or combination of these things can be a source of unhappiness for us and I’m sure you can add several others to the list.

While we are in situations such as these, it sure feels like if the others in our life would just cooperate and be the way we want them to be, and then our lives would be so much better, happier and more fulfilling. While this may, in fact, be true, what I also believe is this. While we are busy trying to get those significant others in our lives to do things our way, the behaviors we typically engage in to move others in our desired direction are exactly those behaviors that damage, and ultimately destroy, our relationships.

You know the behaviors I’m talking about: punishing, guilting, complaining, nagging, threatening, criticizing, “the silent treatment”, and if we are particularly savvy, rewarding to control, otherwise known as bribing.

If you are one of those people whose first choice of action is to negotiate and open the doors of communication, then you are rare. Ask yourself what do you typically resort to when negotiations fail?

I know one of my more polished behaviors is nagging. I am a world class nag---just ask my children. You know the drill. “How about cleaning up your room today?” Thirty minutes later, after the child is still in front of his video game, “Are you going to get to that room today?” Maybe two hours later, several decibels louder, “What about that ROOM?” Then, as a last frustration, it’s “Will you get off your lazy a*# and clean your blankety blank blank room!!!!” Ever been there? Did it work to get the room cleaned? In my case, it usually didn’t.

However, I’ve have had some parents tell me that repeated nagging does work but then my next question usually has a different answer---At what cost? What was the cost of getting that room cleaned? First, there was the cost of you losing control and being a person you probably don’t want to be and secondly, there was a definite cost to the relationship between you and your child. Do you believe that after an exchange such as that one, the two of you will be ready and willing to have a meaningful discussion about life or anything else about which you may like to talk? Probably not.

What I am about to say probably goes against what you have believed the good majority of your life and that is that you, and you alone, are responsible for your own happiness. If you are waiting for someone to do something differently or for a particular thing to manifest itself in your life in order for you to be happy, then you are operating from the outside in instead of the inside out.

I am not here to tell you to stop what you are currently doing. If you want to hold on to your beliefs that when your husband becomes more affectionate, your children more obedient, your wife more supportive, your boss more appreciative or you to get your education, pay off your credit cards, buy your first home, etc. in order for you to be happy, then go ahead. But for those of us who want to practice inside out thinking, we don’t like to give the power to others to control our happiness or any of our other moods or emotions. We know that we are responsible for ourselves and no one else.

What I can help you with is learning how to be the person you want to be, feel the emotions you want to feel by changing what you do and how you think about things. There is a quote I want to leave you with from Jimmy Dean. “You can’t change the direction of the wind, but you can adjust your sails.” This is representative of true inside out thinking. People and events are going to be what they are around us. There is very little we can do to impact other people’s behavior and the uncontrollable events in our lives but there is always something each of us can do to manage those things better.

About the Author

Kim Olver is a licensed professional counselor and a life/relationship coach. She helps people unleash their personal power by living from the inside out, focusing their time and energy on only those things they can control. She also helps people improve the quality of their relationships with the important people in their lives.

If you would like more information please visit www.TheRelationshipCenter.biz and check our calendar for upcoming teleclasses, chats and workshops.